{"id":9725,"date":"2012-10-16T09:28:35","date_gmt":"2012-10-16T14:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dobermandan.com\/?p=9725"},"modified":"2012-10-24T21:43:29","modified_gmt":"2012-10-25T02:43:29","slug":"quid-pro-quo-keeps-the-status-quo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dobermandan.com\/blog\/quid-pro-quo-keeps-the-status-quo\/","title":{"rendered":"Quid Pro Quo Keeps The Status Quo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>&#8220;Love is patient, love is kind. <\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.<br \/>\nIt is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,<br \/>\nit keeps no record of wrongs. <\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. <\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>&#8211; 1 Corinthians 13:4 <\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>(New International Version)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Dear Friend,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">This just may qualify as a historic post.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I&#8217;ve learned to never say never&#8230; but this is probably the last &#8220;from-the-heart&#8221; blog post I&#8217;ll ever do.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">See, when this blog started several years ago it was basically a personal journal&#8230; a way to pass on the life lessons (and marketing secrets) I&#8217;ve learned from my 20+ year entrepreneurial career. I never intended to use this blog as part of a business.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">There was no keyword targeting or narrowing down to one particular &#8220;bulls-eye&#8221; topic so I could suck up to Google and get good SEO for keywords that would attract prospects most likely to buy my products.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Heck, until a couple years ago I never even offered anything for sale&#8230; even though I constantly received emails from people BEGGING for them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">But things changed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I discovered I&#8217;m passionate about helping entrepreneurs&#8230; and helping people like I was&#8230; stuck in a j-o-b and existence that doesn&#8217;t bring any sense of fulfillment (or enough money)&#8230; who want to <em>become<\/em> entrepreneurs.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">So as of Feb. 1, 2012 I&#8217;ve sold all my interests in all my various businesses and have decided to focus on my passion&#8230; what I affectionately call my &#8220;Marketing Camelot.&#8221; (I&#8217;m referring to all the services and benefits I provide to the cherished people who are subscribers to my print newsletter, <em>The Doberman Dan Letter.)<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">That means I now have to look at this blog from a different set of eyes. Posts now have to be done with the goal of getting traffic from people who most likely fit the profile of my ideal Marketing Camelot prospect.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Gone are the days of me ranting about whatever tickles my fancy. I actually have to change strategy and use this blog to target my ideal &#8220;bulls-eye&#8221; keywords. It&#8217;s a necessity if you have a business dependent upon attracting customers online.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">But not today.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I figure you and I can have &#8220;one more for the road&#8221; before I have to get serious and start doing what a marketer is supposed to do with his blog.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">So let&#8217;s enjoy one last final hurrah rant before I have to (reluctantly) relinquish my &#8220;personal journal&#8221; and focus on the business of DobermanDan.com.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Onward.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Surprised to see a bible quote at the top of this post from old &#8220;hard ass&#8221; and occasionally potty-mouthed DD?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Ahhhhh&#8230; well then&#8230; you don&#8217;t really know me, do you? You&#8217;ve been judging a book by its cover. You haven&#8217;t been privy to the thousands of pages of life story you DON&#8217;T see&#8230; because I deliberately don&#8217;t reveal it to you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Nope. That&#8217;s for me to know and you to find out&#8230; if you ever have the chance to spend some &#8220;face time&#8221; with me and REALLY get to know me&#8230; like my Gold Mastermind Mentoring members.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I&#8217;ve spent my 47 years on this planet studying and becoming a semi-expert in many topics other than just business and marketing.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In spite of how you may have judged me based on my occasional inner city cop communication style, one of the topics I&#8217;ve spent DECADES studying is matters of the spirit.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I don&#8217;t think anybody can be immersed in violence, death and the most heinous man against man brutality for 12 years without pondering a few spiritual issues.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Hold a dying child in your arms as they reach out, touch your face, look you in the eyes and say, <em>Oh, you&#8217;re a policeman. You&#8217;re here to help me.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And you put on your best fake smile, muster all the love you&#8217;ve hidden behind that emotional armor you&#8217;re forced to put on everyday and reply, <em>Yes, baby. I&#8217;m a policeman and I&#8217;m here to help you. Everything is gonna be alright. I&#8217;m here.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">&#8230;knowing the only &#8220;help&#8221; you can offer is to hug them tightly&#8230; as you feel the warmth from their blood and their bladder emptying on your shirt&#8230; and you feel their dying breath slowly released from their lungs on your neck.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Yeah&#8230; you may put on appearances of a tough guy&#8230; but that&#8217;s just a role.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>&#8220;All the world&#8217;s a stage,<br \/>\nAnd all the men and women merely players;<br \/>\nThey have their exits and their entrances,<br \/>\nAnd one man in his time plays many parts&#8230;&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">You go home and soak your uniform in hydrogen peroxide to try and remove the blood. It&#8217;s your process of taking off your armor&#8230; and off comes the role that goes along with it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And THAT is when the demons come&#8230; and why I dedicated a large part of my life to try and make sense of numerous spiritual issues.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">So if you judged me as a heathen because of an occasional &#8220;colorful metaphor&#8221; I&#8217;ve uttered or written, shame on you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">You were making assumptions based on very little information, my friend.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">There are a lot of layers here.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">The other day I had occasion to thumb through my very first Bible. New International Version.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">LOTS of highlighting and notes in that long-neglected companion.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">But the page and verse I stopped at (highlighted in pink) was 1 Corinthians 13:4.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Funny that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Even after decades of turning my back on him, my old friend hadn&#8217;t abandoned me. He had the perfect message at the perfect time. It was EXACTLY what I&#8217;ve been rolling around in my demented noggin for months now.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">What I&#8217;ve been thinking about the past year is&#8230; if that TRULY is the definition of pure love&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>How many of us have<br \/>\nTRUE love in our lives?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Sadly, VERY few.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In my 47 years on this ball of mud I can honestly say I hardly know ANYBODY with true love in their lives.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I know lots of people with &#8220;quid pro quo&#8221; love (that includes almost ALL marriages)&#8230; but if 1 Corinthians 13:4 is the gold standard of how we define love you would probably be hard pressed to name just one person who loves you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I&#8217;ve had months to mull all this over in my head until I finally made the decision to put pen to paper and record my thoughts for posterity.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">After 47 years I can safely say I only have two people in my life who love me according to the definition spelled out in 1 Corinthians 13:4.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Or&#8230; possibly only one.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Sadly, most people&#8217;s spouses don&#8217;t love them with 1 Corinthians 13:4 love&#8230; even though, ironically, that verse was most likely read at their wedding.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Nope&#8230; most spousal relationships are &#8220;quid pro quo&#8221; love, based on manipulation. <em>&#8220;Do this for me and I&#8217;ll do this for you and let&#8217;s keep from rocking the boat.&#8221;<\/em> Basically like a good business relationship&#8230; but with occasional sex. (In many cases, EXTREMELY occasional sex.)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And as long as the status quo remains quid pro quo (hey that rhymes!) the relationship can continue without too many rough spots.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Hey, I think I just coined a new phrase:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong>Quid Pro Quo<\/strong><br \/>\nKeeps The Status <strong><strong>Quo<\/strong><\/strong>!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">If most wedding ceremonies were to be honest, THAT is what should be read&#8230; NOT 1 Corinthians 13:4.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Damn shame.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Because life is NEVER status quo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Things can get pretty tough sometimes.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Occasionally, REALLY tough.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">That is when you find out if you&#8217;ve got 1 Corinthians 13:4 love&#8230; or just a quid pro quo relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">If it&#8217;s just quid pro quo (and 99% of the time it is) your spouse\/friend\/partner is going to tuck tail and run.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Sucks, doesn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">But I&#8217;d rather tell you the truth than perpetuate a lie. Lying to you doesn&#8217;t give you the information you need to make proper decisions. Telling you the truth, no matter how distasteful, <em>does<\/em>&#8230; but it makes me a much maligned and ostracized guy.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">You see, I&#8217;ve learned most people actually WANT to be lied to. So most of the time I just keep my mouth shut and allow you to figure things out on your own.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">That&#8217;s why this is my last blog post of this kind. From now on it&#8217;s all just business, keyword targeting for SEO, client attraction, etc.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And frankly, that makes me kinda sad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">&lt;big sigh&gt;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Anyhoo&#8230; my point to all this rambling is this:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">If you have one person&#8230; just ONE&#8230; who truly loves you with 1 Corinthians 13:4 love, you are a truly fortunate and rare person. Because, sadly, after decades and decades of walking this earth, most people die with nothing but &#8220;quid pro quo&#8221; love <em>mistaken<\/em> for 1 Corinthians 13:4 love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And that&#8217;s a damn shame.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Look, I tell you the truth (as my personal &#8220;filters&#8221; see it) which is sometimes quite painful&#8230; but I&#8217;m also here to offer you hope.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Even if you don&#8217;t have it right now, you <em>can<\/em> have 1 Corinthians 13:4 love in your life if you want it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">How?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>By loving others first.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Yeah, I know it&#8217;s hard.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">There are so many hard-to-love people. (ESPECIALLY on the Internet.)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I don&#8217;t want to do it either. It&#8217;s against my nature.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">But, as far as I know, it&#8217;s the only way.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And&#8230; you may &#8220;kiss a lot of frogs&#8221; before you find someone who truly loves you as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">No, it&#8217;s not easy&#8230; but worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Oh yeah, one more really important thing:<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I&#8217;ve been quoting the Bible but make no mistake about it, this is a &#8220;faith-less&#8221; message. In other words, the lesson applies no matter what faith you practice.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you practice none.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the most honest, ethical, compassionate, loving and Christ-like man I know is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>A Devout Atheist!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8230; and he is the poster child for 1 Corinthians 13:4 love. (You know who you are.)<\/p>\n<p>Wow&#8230; now I&#8217;m having serious second thoughts about whether I should publish this. It&#8217;s so contrary to the way you probably stereotyped me.<\/p>\n<p>But I know what&#8217;s causing the second thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m VERY well acquainted with it. It&#8217;s been a constant companion for as long as I can remember.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s called&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Fear!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s the ANTITHESIS of love.<\/p>\n<p>If God is love, fear is the Devil&#8230; and that rat bastard constantly tries to keep me from doing and saying things&#8230; like publishing this post, for example.<\/p>\n<p>And he is one powerful and persistent enemy.<\/p>\n<p>It took two near-death experiences (this year alone!) for me to drum up the guts to speak about all this publicly.<\/p>\n<p>Funny how believing you&#8217;re going to die can change a man.<\/p>\n<p>You say and do stuff you should have always done. The stuff that your enemy has scared you away from saying and doing.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to wrap my fingers around his throat and squeeze the life out of him.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I&#8217;ve tried.<\/p>\n<p>But it doesn&#8217;t work. He just comes back with strength multiplied.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve only found one way and one way only to defeat that S.O.B.<\/p>\n<p>Love.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah&#8230; the exact opposite of what we FEEL like doing.<\/p>\n<p>Because acting on love is walking by faith.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>&#8220;Now faith is the substance of things hoped for&#8230;<br \/>\nthe evidence of things not seen.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;NOW faith&#8221;&#8230; not &#8220;one of these days when I feel like it&#8221; faith.<\/p>\n<p>And NOW faith spurs a man to action&#8230; the only way I know to conquer fear.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s why I constantly say &#8220;motion beats meditation.&#8221; Meditation feeds fear&#8230; motion conquers it.<\/p>\n<p>And moving forward&#8230; even if it&#8217;s FALLING forward&#8230; is faith in action.<\/p>\n<p>Combine that with love and&#8230; wow! You&#8217;re probably going to be amazed and astounded at what happens in your life.<\/p>\n<p>No matter if you follow Jesus, Mohammed, Buddha, Zeus, L. Ron Hubbard, you&#8217;re agnostic or even a hard core atheist.<\/p>\n<p>The principle works the same for all as surely as gravity works the same for all.<\/p>\n<p>Look, I know fear well&#8230; and I&#8217;ve seen its devastating effects.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep letting it hamstring you, a year from now&#8230; 5 years from now&#8230; 20 years from now&#8230; or God forbid, on your deathbed&#8230; you&#8217;ll STILL be lamenting the dreams and goals you never achieved.<\/p>\n<p>Heck&#8230; never even ATTEMPTED.<\/p>\n<p>But now you have no excuse.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been given the big secret.<\/p>\n<p>The keys to the kingdom.<\/p>\n<p>Love and faith.<\/p>\n<p>Ironically, the polar opposite of how we&#8217;re hardwired.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s the only way.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&lt;insert deep introspective thinking here&gt;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Wow&#8230; my &#8220;last hurrah&#8221; blog post was a little heavy, huh?<\/p>\n<p>Well just to make sure I covered all the bases&#8230; for those who prefer the more typical Doberman Dan rhetoric&#8230; let me put it another way:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>GET OFF YOUR ASS AND DO SOMETHING!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>All the best,<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dobermandan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/dobedansig_sm11.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-59\" title=\"dobedansig_sm11\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dobermandan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/dobedansig_sm11.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"74\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This just may qualify as a historic post.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned to never say never&#8230; but this is probably the last &#8220;from-the-heart&#8221; blog post I&#8217;ll ever do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10338,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[46,13],"tags":[1628,1629,1031,1709,969,1897,171,102,100,1711,1710,1542,1707,63,455,1708,1633,1632,1630,1713,1635,88,180,1204,1634,464,1706,1892,209,1377,855,286,1712,1631,1495],"class_list":{"0":"post-9725","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-blogs","8":"category-success-mindset","9":"tag-1-corinthians-13","10":"tag-1-corinthians-13-4","11":"tag-bulls-eye","12":"tag-business-venture","13":"tag-camelot","14":"tag-cherished-people","15":"tag-dd","16":"tag-dear-friend","17":"tag-doberman","18":"tag-enough-money","19":"tag-existence","20":"tag-fulfillment","21":"tag-funnel","22":"tag-google","23":"tag-heart","24":"tag-heck","25":"tag-love-is-kind","26":"tag-love-is-patient","27":"tag-love-is-patient-love-is-kind","28":"tag-love-life","29":"tag-love-relationship","30":"tag-lt","31":"tag-marketing","32":"tag-marriage","33":"tag-marriage-relationship","34":"tag-passion","35":"tag-personal-journal","36":"tag-profile","37":"tag-prospects","38":"tag-relationships","39":"tag-seo","40":"tag-subscribers","41":"tag-true-love","42":"tag-trusts","43":"tag-truth"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Quid Pro Quo Keeps The Status Quo - Doberman Dan<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dobermandan.com\/blog\/quid-pro-quo-keeps-the-status-quo\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Quid Pro Quo Keeps The Status Quo - Doberman Dan\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"This just may qualify as a historic post.  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